Why Reaching Out for Therapy Is a Brave Step

Nov 19, 2025

by Maria Van Vreden

a group of ducks swimming in water
a group of ducks swimming in water

Many people still hesitate before starting therapy. Even though mental health is talked about more openly today, there can still be a quiet voice saying you should cope on your own or just be stronger. For some people, especially those from older generations, asking for help can feel uncomfortable or even shameful.

Therapy is often misunderstood as something you only need when things are very bad. In reality, therapy is not about being broken or weak. It is about self awareness and courage. Choosing to talk to someone about how you are feeling takes bravery. It means you are willing to look at yourself with honesty and care.

A lot of people worry about being judged or appearing vulnerable. But therapy is a confidential and compassionate space where vulnerability is welcomed. You are not expected to have everything figured out. You are allowed to feel unsure, emotional, or confused. Those feelings are part of being human.

Reaching out for support can be the first step towards feeling more grounded and understood. Many people find that simply talking openly, without having to explain or justify themselves, already brings relief. Therapy helps normalise struggles and reminds you that you are not alone in how you feel.

If you have been thinking about counselling or psychotherapy but feel unsure, it might help to remember that asking for help is not a failure. It is an act of care towards yourself and often the strongest step you can take.